Unwritten rules of Asheville

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There’s a certain pride that comes with being an Ashevillian. Often, that manifests itself in quirky ways, like a diehard commitment to casual clothing, unique driving etiquette, and knowing when it’s “safe” to get in the French Broad River.

While none of these rules are official or written down, they are undoubtedly absorbed by the community. Here are some unofficial rules of engagement that your neighbors shared on Instagram , Facebook , and via email.

Keep it local

“Don’t share your favorite secret swimming hole, summit, or dive bar without you knowing them REALLY WELL and that they too can keep a secret.” — @redheadedmtnwoman

“It’s perfectly fine to go out to a nice dinner in flip flops and jeans & a t-shirt. In fact if you’re too ‘dressed’ people will think you’re a tourist.” — @sorstudioavl

Drive like so

“If the first car waiting at a red light hasn’t noticed that it’s turned green, give them a few seconds before honking, maybe they’re just busy vibin.’” — @ophidian_spindle

“Stop trying to turn left on Merrimon; it’s not going to happen.” — @findingmydrishti

“Don’t drive on Patton in West AVL at 5 p.m.” — @theemshea

“Only monsters drive on Wall Street.” — @yunz.are.sumthinelse

Embrace authenticity

“It’s normal to see a nun with a mustache riding a bike downtown, squirting tourists with a water gun.” — Kelly H.

“Never ‘ogle’ at Ashevillians you might consider outlandishly dressed or styled.” — Steve H.

“Respect the queers. You have no idea how much power we have.” — @z.088.z

Trail etiquette

“You must bring your dog everywhere you go.” — Elizabeth K.

“Leave No Trace when hiking, trail running, backpacking, etc. That includes apple cores, orange and banana peels, and of course toilet tissue.” — Ann K.

“Wear hiking shoes with everything.” — Deborah H.

Dining tips

“Pay attention to ABV% at the brewery. Three local IPA’s hit different than three Miller Lites…” — @chelsbenay

“Eat at the ‘best’ restaurants during the weekdays instead of the weekends.” — @goforthandgrow

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Laura is based in Asheville, NC and has written for AVLtoday since March 2021. Before joining 6AM City, she wrote for Mountain Xpress and created content for the Asheville Area Chamber of Commerce (the 2019 National Chamber of the Year). In her free time, she loves exploring her city by bike, testing out new restaurants, and hanging out with her dog Iroh at the park.
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